Ja nisam kao ti

Živimo u vremenu kada se ljudi više posvećuju tuđoj vanjštini nego nutrini, a ono što svakog čovjeka čini posebnim postalo je zanemarivo. Kada se prvi put rukujemo s nekom osobom, najprije ćemo opaziti njezinu odjeću ili ima li  najnovije trendi cipele na sebi. Promaknuti će nam, primjerice njezin osmijeh, oči, je li bila tužna ili vesela…  U posljednje vrijeme okolina nas prisiljava da takve stvari smatramo nebitnima, istovremeno potičući predrasude i stereotipe kojima se  krši pravilo ljudskosti i morala.

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Zašto bih ja npr. bila u društvu  koje možda  i nije tako popularno kada se mogu pojaviti na sred hodnika s nekom “cool ekipom” ( hmmmm…. a što je zapravo cool ekipa? ) i postati jedna od njih. Pa dobro, kada to sagledam ovako “crno na bijelo” i nije to  toliko loša opcija, no ubrzo  će mi postati  dosadno i osjećati ću se loše jer ću pokušavati biti ono što nisam i što nikada ni neću biti. Upravo takve stvari mene muče, a za sve one koji čitaju ovaj članak i  to im izgleda pomalo bez veze te misle : “Pa to su čiste gluposti! Čime si ti razbijaš glavu” , imam malu poruku.  Probajte shvatiti da je i mene uhvatio pubertet, a vjerujem da se i puno  drugih osjeća poput mene.

Priznajem,  imam veliku manu: na mene utječe sve ono što drugi misle o mojim postupcima i zbog toga se  pokušavam prilagoditi drugima kako ne bi imali ružno mišljenje o meni i smatrali  me kao potpunim freak-om.  Ipak, znam da nisam jedina koja se mora uhvatiti u koštac s tim problemom i zbog toga  sam i odlučila napisati članak o tome.

Za sve nas koje muče isti problemi, imam jedan savjet (jedan, ali vrijedan hihihi ): boli vas briga što drugi misle o vama, budite ono što jeste, budite sretni i nemojte se pretvarati i skrivati svoje mišljenje (ako vas netko živcira i stalno vas podbada, slobodno pokažite zube, bez straha), pa što ako vas drugi smatraju pomalo čudnima, ludima ili otkačenima, to smo sve mi i baš smo zato zakon takvi kakvi jesmo 🙂 totalno drugačiji od drugih !!!

 

 

Do sljedećeg članka, vaša Anđelika <3

 

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